Daddy Bonding
My kids didn’t see their daddy for a few days but funnily, sometimes they miss him but sometimes they are not. If wonder if they will act the same if I’m not around? I haven’t been away from my kids for more than a week, and it only happened 3 times to my boy and once to my gal.
Sometimes, I feel that most men are “ignored” because kids are generally closer to their mothers when they are younger. I may be wrong about this, but if most mothers are the one taking care of them, they are generally much closer. Unless he’s a single father, than the condition might be different.
Luckily hubby is the type that is expressive with the kids, if he’s the traditional strict type of father, I think the generation gap might be greater as my kids grow older. So no one can blame me if I let hubby handle the kids all by himself and taking a break from mothering. He needs the bonding.
Lucky for the kids to have a daddy like that. I think that’s really important.
A tag for you, Amy. Please hunt for it in my blog as there are many tags lying there. Thanks.
Jo-N, I try not to do tags here at this blog.
am I lucky? my DH is the type that wish to have more bonding time with his children. He even turned down offer to work overseas just to maintain staying with us and seeing his child grow. My gal’s bonding with daddy is greater than with mummy… I’m so sad…. *sob sob*
Am I lucky? My DH is the type that support daddy bonding with his children. He even turned down the offer to work overseas just to stay close with us and enjoy seeing his gal growing. He said that’s not his purpose to earn big bucks but his children cannot remember him, that’s totally against his fatherhood. My gal just know when it’s time to look for mummy and times for daddy only.
sorry… entered twice as there was error after i uploaded…